Speak up?

Okay guys, let's have a do-over
I think it's generally difficult for us to understand how we feel about people around us. I mean it's like we're always confused about how we feel and we generally don't understand what to do with our feelings. And if someone gives us a reality check, we are scared to accept it. I mean of course right? It's difficult

And even if we accept how we feel, it's very rare that we take the right decision on it. I mean let's say we feel for someone. Do we actually have the courage to go up to that person? I mean why does it take so many days, weeks, months years to even gather the courage to stand up in front of that person and say what we actually feel. It's because it's difficult. It's important to us and we just don't want to lose what we have. I mean we don't want to take risks, but is it the right thing? Is it even fair? Fair to us as a person and fair to them. 

I think it's generally believed that we should talk about stuff. Open up to a friends and families or outside help if needed. But should we? I mean I can be honest to a stranger because it does not matter, but if I have to be honest with someone who's close to me, it's the most difficult thing in the world. Because when you're honest with people who are close to you, you have expectations. You want them to care about the things you do. May not be as strongly as you do, but to some extent. Because of all this this so much thinking involved so much of pros and cons. You are just never able to make a decision.

And let me just tell you, tossing the coin doesn't really help


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